3 “How To” Ways to Design Your Success Mindset
A success mindset doesn’t just happen. We are inundated with projections, expectations, judgements, obligations, traditions you name it. Our mindset programming starts the moment we take our first breath and the doctor slaps our butt to get us to scream. And scream we do!
We go screaming through life without a second thought until one day. One day we wake up and wonder, just who the heck are we and what are we doing? We have been living those beliefs that we gathered from everyone and everything.
And it turns out, they are not doing us any good. We are not where we want to be. And not creating what we want to create. Which means not living our ideal life.
So how do we turn that all around, because honey we are not getting any younger.
We sit down and design it. Consciously, fully present in our body design it. Right down to the nitty gritty details. Our success mindset starts with a blueprint.
What do I mean by nitty gritty details?
Don’t come at me with statements like “I want to be happy”, “I want my life to be all about me”, “ I want true love”, “I want to be wealthy”
That just doesn’t fly when it comes to creating a success mindset that has you taking right action.
So when you say I want to be happy. What the heck makes you happy girl? Get clear on what being, doing and having makes you happy. I assure you that what makes you happy doesn’t make me happy. And what makes me happy definitely wouldn’t make you happy. So you have to get clear.
Now I have seen over the years LOTS of people do the first step and then shove it in a drawer and never look at it again…..pst, this doesn’t work.
If you don’t work towards you goals, your clear goals, you will never get there.
For instance, an Olympic swimmer desires to win gold. They think and breathe winning gold and take steps every single day that is aimed towards winning that gold. Everything from what they do, eat, think, talk about is in alignment with winning gold.
Every day you need to embody the knowingness that you are in the process of creating your success. Through your mindset and what you say to yourself and others. When you are living, breathing and believing it you will start to take daily action. Breaking down into bite sized chunks what’s required so that each day you are working towards it.
Now that we are clear and we are living and breathing it – next step is to ask for it.
From everybody and everything. Ask, ask, ask. Now if you are not willing to ask and hear no. Then you don’t really desire it. So then I highly suggest you start back at #1 and go again. You need to have your mindset aligned towards asking.
What I mean by that is if you are too scared to ask, too angry to ask, too stubborn to ask – you won’t get it.
Mindset leads. Action follows.
So if your mindset is – no matter what I am going to get what I want – then you will ask everyone and everything.
If you fear the no, you will not get to where you desire.
Hate the thought of having to ask someone you don’t want to, even though they hold the magic ticket, you will not get to where you desire.
So how do you design your success mindset to make it happen?
It’s a weird trick that works.
Trust me.
When I need to ask for something, I put my right hand over my heart and ask it out loud. I do that about 50-100 times. More if I am super stuck about asking.
This programs the ask into my mind so that when the time comes, it just pops out because it is now as easy as saying “pass the salt”.
There you have it!
3 easy “how to” ways to design your success mindset.
Let me know how it all works for you and I will see you in the next blog!
Xo,
Tracy
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