Self Worth. Find Out Now, What Should You Do To Improve It To Benefit Your Net Worth
Self worth plays a huge role in our success. And sometimes we don’t realize that we are using someone elses’ to screw ourselves over.
How do you know it’s happening – ask this question.
Are you making the money you desire easily?
If you are saying “no” or “I could be making more”, then I say “YES”. Yes you are my dear.
There are many reasons why we do this form of business and success sabotage AND there are simple ways to overcome it.
This is totally a head game issue.
So let’s dig in.
Why do we allow someone else’s self-worth affect our net worth?
Because we feel bad or guilty. That is the easiest way to look at it.
Let me expand on this.
You feel bad (or guilty) that we have more money or can make more than others, our parents, our spouse, our kids (older of course), our siblings, our friends, others in our industry, our peers, our partners, our country, our town, or others in the world that go without.
How do we allow someone else’s self-worth affect our net worth?
We stop going after big opportunities. Don’t take the necessary risks. We don’t prepare. Don’t train. Most likely we don’t market. Very little chasing. No follow up. We don’t go to bed on time or get up on time. Probably don’t look after our physical bodies or after our loving relationships.
We spend it as fast as we get it. Give it away until we are struggling. We live off of credit cards. Don’t learn the language of money. Talk negatively about money. Spend money on things for our business and don’t follow through, implement fully or use it at all.
In short – We don’t do the things that are required to make the money, keep the money and most importantly enjoy the money.
And how do we know if we are doing these things destroying our self worth?
EXCUSES & BLAME!
I hope you read that line clearly.
I have been in this business for a veeeeerrrry long time. And I have heard a myriad of excuses and personally used a myriad of excuses to ensure that success and building of net worth didn’t have a hope in hell of occurring.
If you are doing it – don’t beat yourself up. We all do it.
AND we do it each time we are ready to level up to a new level of wealth. So take from this the awareness.
Awareness that these things are starting to creep in – and then use one of the techniques to get rid of the mindsets and belief systems holding you back.
How do we conquer the mental beast destroying our self worth wealth capacities?
- Journaling. As I type this I can feel some of your energetic groaning. Journaling works if you do it right. So how would you journal in this case?
Easy
Journal Question: What would it negatively mean for me if I had all the money I desired?
Write it all down.
Then say out loud – Is this really true? Then write down what would be true for you.
Do this for 5-10 days in a row to get it all out, onto the paper and out of your head.
Some people I know then burn the papers at the end as an additional release.
- EFT – Tapping. I love tapping. When I feel like I need to do a physical release I turn to tapping. The basis of this is tapping on certain points on the body that are linked to acupuncture points know as meridians that removes blockages. Once the blockages (emotions and thoughts) are released – the flow is re-instated both within our energetic body and in our physical actions in the world.
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- Belief Clearings. If you have looked at any of my work – you will know that I believe that this is the secret sauce to hammering it out. It is super simple to use. You can record it and put it on a loop (because nothing in life is a one and done when it comes to growth). I like to clear in the moment and then if it is something big then I record it on my phone and loop it and play it on low while I work or sleep.
So let me give you an example:
Everywhere I am mimicking someone else’s pain, pathways and realities in my finances that is keeping me from the wealth that I desire and deserve I de-story, delete, untangle, unwind, dissipate and release it from all levels, lifetimes and realities.
Now that might seem a bit crazy and you might be thinking – how would I ever come up with something like that.
However please remember that I have been doing this for years so you get that “flair” to making these crazy things.
Here’s the jist
Insert thing you want to remove + I de-story, delete, untangle, unwind, dissipate and release it from all levels, lifetimes and realities.
**Remember it might take you a few times to get rid of it. If it is a huge sticking point – put it on a loop for 30 days.
Some examples of a real sticking point, especially for women, is making more money than their spouse. We make less as a twisted way of honoring them, validating them or ensuring they don’t feel bad.
So that would look like:
All the ways I am keeping my wealth levels lower than my spouse as a way to validate, honor or keep them from any sort of emotional pain or stress I de-story, delete, untangle, unwind, dissipate and release it from all levels, lifetimes and realities.
Go ahead and record these if you want to give them a whirl!
So there you have it. Three ways to keep others self-worth from tanking your net worth.
I would love to hear what you come up with in creating a ridiculous high net worth that would blow your mind.
Here’s to your success my friends!
Xo,
Tracy
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